hmmm...abit strange i felt..how come no one commented on my last post ah...?? u all agree with what i said isitttt? Thank you, thank you! hahaha well i suppose those around me would know what happened and thanks y'all for being there for me and backing me up, appreciate that lots.. MR Faker did call up few days ago coz something came up and he sounded 'well-behaved' coz i suppose he knew he was at fault...as for me, i just sounded normal, or should i say, expressionless, thats how i would be if already 'bo chup' with a person...hhee well ok i apologise if i was sounding too emotional in the last post but im sorry i couldnt help it..i suppose writing it all in the blog gives me a sense of relieve and satisfaction..and btw, MR Faker is not any of my personal friend, if u guys were wondering who this lamer is..anyway, thats it about him..
its been some time that i put up a post...so i thought today i should put up one, dedicated to a good friend and sis, Fiz..
To Fiz, i know you've been reading my blog frequently, i've been checking up urs too, and i appreciate the fact that u remember me and include me in ur posts, thats really nice of u..well yes, we havent been really close like we used to be, but in one way or another, we still do keep in touch..I feel for you, with whatever problems you're facing right now, wish i could help but i suppose, its not really possible coz its too personal.. and im in no position to do so either. but im glad u managed to tide over the rough waves...well i just want to let u know that no matter what, u can always look me up if u need someone to talk to ok?? and if u dont already know me well, i'm non-judgemental, so in ur blog, u dont know what i would be thinking of u after u 'confessed' on that issue, well my answer is, my impression of u never changed at all..i hope u will be strong enough to stand firm amidst all the distractions..
So take care, sis, live life to the fullest dont ever waste it and thank Allah for all his graciousness..
To the rest, thanks for checking up my blog, till next post...
Saturday, August 18, 2007
Saturday, August 11, 2007
FAKES
Before i begin my post this time, allow me to say that whatever im posting is subjected to my own personal view...no one has to agree with whatever i am about to say..feel free to bombard me with your comments be it negative or positive..
Its interesting to find different kinds of ppl living in this world...i wouldnt say good or bad ppl because everyone has their own perception...rather i would describe these ppl to be, kind-hearted, considerate, selfish, stuck up, generous, back-stabbers,down-to-earth etc2 and the list goes on and on...we can describe ppl in 1001 adjectives...however, the worst kinds of ppl that i personally HATE BIG TIME are LIARS and HYPOCRITES...
HYPOCRITE, according to the Cambridge Dictionary, it describes someone who pretends to believe something that they do not really believe or that is the opposite of what they do or say at another time...well its not really hard to find these type of ppl living in this world..we cant stop ppl from being who they are but i just wonder if these hypocrites realise that they are being one hell of a pain in the neck, especially if its really too obvious not to realise it themselves..in my personal opinion, being a hypocrite is already bad enough, but it's much worse if they they hurt others too...which leaves me with no choice but to label these ppl as brainless...i wonder where their brain is..can someone tell me where their brain is? Well, i suddenly thought of someone, a 7 yr old kid who says, "this person has no brain, he forgot to bring his brain, he left it in his home, and he's going home to get it now, he realised that he left his brain in the closet...hahah...well at the time he said it, i just felt it was so amusing but now, i really feel it fits this context perfectly...
Its such a shame that ppl, who preach so much about professionalism, when, the truth is, they dont practice what they preach...its just so sad, that these ppl have no idea what the hell they are preaching at all...its better off if they dont preach at all and no one will give a damn even if they are not being professional...but the moment u start telling the world, "I'm being professional u know..we must be professional at all times...and bla bla bla, but youre not even showing acts of professionalism, it becomes a joke on yourself...it leads to others perceiving you as a HYPOCRITE. And i have a 4 letter F word for these ppl, F.A.K.E..... To the person whom i've labelled as Mr FAKER, i pray that he gets this straight one fine day, someone who is professional, never tells others that they are being professional...i hate to label ppl and i hate to hate ppl, but some ppl are just too much that i have to say this....
I've had my fair share of meeting FAKES in my life who had betrayed and hurt me...and i'm sick and tired of dealing with ppl who 'cakap tak serupa bikin' its a malay idiom meaning, ppl who dont practice what they preach, and 'ular kepala dua', meaning ppl who talks nicely in front of some, but show their true colours in front of others...well, what can i do, ppl will be ppl, we cant change who they are, i suppose we are left with our own self on how to deal with these jokers..as for me, i will just choose to be cordial, i wont be rude, but i wont be nice either... from now on its just plain business relations and nothing more, no more favours, no more putting up with the stupid jokes...i wont take revenge, i wont bear grudges, let God decide what's best for them...
Congratulations Mr FAKER, you've just won yourself a free ticket to I-Wont-Give-A-Quack-About-What-You-Say-Anymore Land, enjoy your stay...just remember that the cycle of life is simple, what goes around, comes around...one day you hurt someone, one day it will just slap you hard in the face....
Its interesting to find different kinds of ppl living in this world...i wouldnt say good or bad ppl because everyone has their own perception...rather i would describe these ppl to be, kind-hearted, considerate, selfish, stuck up, generous, back-stabbers,down-to-earth etc2 and the list goes on and on...we can describe ppl in 1001 adjectives...however, the worst kinds of ppl that i personally HATE BIG TIME are LIARS and HYPOCRITES...
HYPOCRITE, according to the Cambridge Dictionary, it describes someone who pretends to believe something that they do not really believe or that is the opposite of what they do or say at another time...well its not really hard to find these type of ppl living in this world..we cant stop ppl from being who they are but i just wonder if these hypocrites realise that they are being one hell of a pain in the neck, especially if its really too obvious not to realise it themselves..in my personal opinion, being a hypocrite is already bad enough, but it's much worse if they they hurt others too...which leaves me with no choice but to label these ppl as brainless...i wonder where their brain is..can someone tell me where their brain is? Well, i suddenly thought of someone, a 7 yr old kid who says, "this person has no brain, he forgot to bring his brain, he left it in his home, and he's going home to get it now, he realised that he left his brain in the closet...hahah...well at the time he said it, i just felt it was so amusing but now, i really feel it fits this context perfectly...
Its such a shame that ppl, who preach so much about professionalism, when, the truth is, they dont practice what they preach...its just so sad, that these ppl have no idea what the hell they are preaching at all...its better off if they dont preach at all and no one will give a damn even if they are not being professional...but the moment u start telling the world, "I'm being professional u know..we must be professional at all times...and bla bla bla, but youre not even showing acts of professionalism, it becomes a joke on yourself...it leads to others perceiving you as a HYPOCRITE. And i have a 4 letter F word for these ppl, F.A.K.E..... To the person whom i've labelled as Mr FAKER, i pray that he gets this straight one fine day, someone who is professional, never tells others that they are being professional...i hate to label ppl and i hate to hate ppl, but some ppl are just too much that i have to say this....
I've had my fair share of meeting FAKES in my life who had betrayed and hurt me...and i'm sick and tired of dealing with ppl who 'cakap tak serupa bikin' its a malay idiom meaning, ppl who dont practice what they preach, and 'ular kepala dua', meaning ppl who talks nicely in front of some, but show their true colours in front of others...well, what can i do, ppl will be ppl, we cant change who they are, i suppose we are left with our own self on how to deal with these jokers..as for me, i will just choose to be cordial, i wont be rude, but i wont be nice either... from now on its just plain business relations and nothing more, no more favours, no more putting up with the stupid jokes...i wont take revenge, i wont bear grudges, let God decide what's best for them...
Congratulations Mr FAKER, you've just won yourself a free ticket to I-Wont-Give-A-Quack-About-What-You-Say-Anymore Land, enjoy your stay...just remember that the cycle of life is simple, what goes around, comes around...one day you hurt someone, one day it will just slap you hard in the face....
Sunday, August 5, 2007
In the name of BEAUTY
hey y'all, was browsing through a friend's blog just now (thanks fiz, if you're reading this, kudos to u for putting it up), and after reading her latest post, it knocked me so hard that i decided to comment on the topic too and share it with u all...before i begin, read this simple yet meaningful story that reveals the shocking truth of today's world....this story has no connection whatsoever with the living or the dead....
Girl: Hey
Boy: What?
Girl: I really like you. And I... I think I'm falling in love with you.
Boy: Ok...Girl: What do you mean "ok"?Boy: I don't like you like that...
Girl: Why not?
Boy: I can't tell you... maybe another time...
From then on, the girl kept asking the boy "Why not?" whenever she saw him, and he kept answering the same answer of "I'll tell you later." Finally the girl got fed up.
Girl: I'm tired of this! Tell me why you don't like me!
Boy: Do you really wanna know why?
Girl: Yes!
Boy: It's because you're uglier than freak! What's the point of going out with someone when they're not pretty?! (The nerve!! soo superficial!!)
Girl: But... I...
Boy: Just shut up and leave me alone!
The boy leaves and the girl is sitting there alone, crying her heart out. Then her cell phone rings.
Girl: Hello?
Mom: Sweetheart? I want you to go home, ok? I'll be home from work in a few hours.
Girl: Alright Mom.
Mom: I love you.
Girl: I love you too, Mom.
Mom: Bye Bye.
Girl: Bye
The girl heads home and once she got there, she went in the bathroom and looked at herself in the mirror.
Girl: I'm not pretty enough...
She set to work, knowing fully well what she was going to do. 2 hours later, her Mom came home and heard the bathwater running. She went upstairs to find the hallway flooded so she knocked on the door.
Mom: Honey? Are you alright?
She opened the door and was shocked at the site. The bath was overflowing onto the floor, and the water was tinted red. She walked over to see what was inside and screamed. There, her little girl was lying with cuts all over her face and wrists. Her Mom backed away and was going to run to call the police when something caught her eye. On the mirror were these words written in blood: "Am I pretty enough now?"
No one deserves to be told that by ANYONE especially not from someone they love. A person's appearance doesn't count. What counts is their heart inside of them and their personality. No one likes to be told they're not good enough...
It's SAD but its also TRUE, that the scenario mentioned above is taking place in our daily life..i'm not talking only about boy-girl relationships, hell that's worse, to hear those freaking words from someone u love, its like a knife piercing through ur skin..rather im talking in general, about how the ppl living in the world today looks more on the outward beauty rather than beauty that's inside our hearts...true enough ppl always say, they only care about inward beauty and not the physical beauty, but how many of us really, truly mean it?
well, i've had my fair share of comments about my outlook, both positive and negative. But the worst, and the most hurtful came from someone i used to adore years ago...i know and could feel the pain the girl in the story above had felt...i had been told by this person many times, though its done subtly...things like, "i think you should start to exercise" (that's reasonable enough, no problems with that), "you're getting sick more often because you're not healthy, should start to exercise" (ok thats still not too bad), what about...."you see, how many times the back tyres of my bike had flattened, and why not the front one? its because of your weight,you really should start to exercise" (wah lau, that's abit harsh isnt it?) well maybe to some its just a passing comment, but to me, its no longer a passing comment when its been uttered many times...well its not something that i DON'T ALREADY KNOW and i wasnt like lazing around and do nothing, but then, with whatever's been said, its like being slapped in the face and really hurts especially when it comes from the person u love...but i thank Allah that i didnt go as far as doing what the girl did in her story....
well it's no wonder that ppl nowadays, especially girls would do WHATEVER and ANYTHING to stay slim or should i say thin....the society has been so-called 'programmed' to like only the beautiful and slim exterior...it doesnt really matter if you have a good heart or personality, or whether u have talents...
well i suppose, in this matter, we OURSELVES have the upper hand to make the decision...why do we have to suffer on the perception of others? why do we have to give a damn on what others would think of what we look like? do we really need to hurt ourselves just because others dont find us BEAUTIFUL? if we are not happy with the way we look, yes by all means, make the changes, (i dont mean plastic surgery here) and do it just because, WE want to change it for our own benefit, not because we want OTHERS to accept us as BEAUTIFUL...
Girl: Hey
Boy: What?
Girl: I really like you. And I... I think I'm falling in love with you.
Boy: Ok...Girl: What do you mean "ok"?Boy: I don't like you like that...
Girl: Why not?
Boy: I can't tell you... maybe another time...
From then on, the girl kept asking the boy "Why not?" whenever she saw him, and he kept answering the same answer of "I'll tell you later." Finally the girl got fed up.
Girl: I'm tired of this! Tell me why you don't like me!
Boy: Do you really wanna know why?
Girl: Yes!
Boy: It's because you're uglier than freak! What's the point of going out with someone when they're not pretty?! (The nerve!! soo superficial!!)
Girl: But... I...
Boy: Just shut up and leave me alone!
The boy leaves and the girl is sitting there alone, crying her heart out. Then her cell phone rings.
Girl: Hello?
Mom: Sweetheart? I want you to go home, ok? I'll be home from work in a few hours.
Girl: Alright Mom.
Mom: I love you.
Girl: I love you too, Mom.
Mom: Bye Bye.
Girl: Bye
The girl heads home and once she got there, she went in the bathroom and looked at herself in the mirror.
Girl: I'm not pretty enough...
She set to work, knowing fully well what she was going to do. 2 hours later, her Mom came home and heard the bathwater running. She went upstairs to find the hallway flooded so she knocked on the door.
Mom: Honey? Are you alright?
She opened the door and was shocked at the site. The bath was overflowing onto the floor, and the water was tinted red. She walked over to see what was inside and screamed. There, her little girl was lying with cuts all over her face and wrists. Her Mom backed away and was going to run to call the police when something caught her eye. On the mirror were these words written in blood: "Am I pretty enough now?"
No one deserves to be told that by ANYONE especially not from someone they love. A person's appearance doesn't count. What counts is their heart inside of them and their personality. No one likes to be told they're not good enough...
It's SAD but its also TRUE, that the scenario mentioned above is taking place in our daily life..i'm not talking only about boy-girl relationships, hell that's worse, to hear those freaking words from someone u love, its like a knife piercing through ur skin..rather im talking in general, about how the ppl living in the world today looks more on the outward beauty rather than beauty that's inside our hearts...true enough ppl always say, they only care about inward beauty and not the physical beauty, but how many of us really, truly mean it?
well, i've had my fair share of comments about my outlook, both positive and negative. But the worst, and the most hurtful came from someone i used to adore years ago...i know and could feel the pain the girl in the story above had felt...i had been told by this person many times, though its done subtly...things like, "i think you should start to exercise" (that's reasonable enough, no problems with that), "you're getting sick more often because you're not healthy, should start to exercise" (ok thats still not too bad), what about...."you see, how many times the back tyres of my bike had flattened, and why not the front one? its because of your weight,you really should start to exercise" (wah lau, that's abit harsh isnt it?) well maybe to some its just a passing comment, but to me, its no longer a passing comment when its been uttered many times...well its not something that i DON'T ALREADY KNOW and i wasnt like lazing around and do nothing, but then, with whatever's been said, its like being slapped in the face and really hurts especially when it comes from the person u love...but i thank Allah that i didnt go as far as doing what the girl did in her story....
well it's no wonder that ppl nowadays, especially girls would do WHATEVER and ANYTHING to stay slim or should i say thin....the society has been so-called 'programmed' to like only the beautiful and slim exterior...it doesnt really matter if you have a good heart or personality, or whether u have talents...
well i suppose, in this matter, we OURSELVES have the upper hand to make the decision...why do we have to suffer on the perception of others? why do we have to give a damn on what others would think of what we look like? do we really need to hurt ourselves just because others dont find us BEAUTIFUL? if we are not happy with the way we look, yes by all means, make the changes, (i dont mean plastic surgery here) and do it just because, WE want to change it for our own benefit, not because we want OTHERS to accept us as BEAUTIFUL...
My philosophies:
Beauty is only skin deep, what's important is what we really are inside...coz as we grow old, we might not be beautiful on the outside anymore, but if we have a good heart, we will always REMAIN BEAUTIFUL
If others find that we are not BEAUTIFUL enough for them, they can just @#$% OFF...
The Disney Jigsaw Photo Galleries
WARNING: The paragraphs and pics that follow might be too much to bear for some as it contain graphics which are too cute to be watched with the naked eye and may not be suitable for the weak heart ;)
ok so Mr IM had this brilliant idea in mind when he was passing this particular shop at IMM recently...he was 'concerned' that i was having trouble sleeping at night and thus had to do some things in order for me to feel sleepy, and one of them is ehemmm blogging the night away..so, he decided to get me to do 'something' meaningful instead (thanks Mr IM thats really very thoughtful of you)...and guess what, i've never thought about it actually, but it was a cool idea..he decided to get me to do a jigsaw puzzle.
So we went to this jigsaw shop he had in mind..we saw this 200 pieces Disney Jigsaw Photo Gallery series whereby we can actually take out the heart shaped pieces in the centre of the puzzle and put our pictures in it instead..so we bought 2 jigsaws, one for him and one for me..we decided to do for each other....so to see how the 2 jigsaws turned out, take a look at the end product below..eh..you all must bear in mind that this is the first time that we both are doing a 200-pieces jigsaw okayyyy and its not as simple as u all think u know...not like those that we used to do when we were kids...:P
I'm PROUD to present you with......(this is from me to him)
Time taken to complete puzzle only : 6 hours over 2 nights (not bad right??)
Let's now see how was his progress and the end product....
Mr IM busy concentrating hard on putting the pieces together...good luck ok?? surely can't beat my time taken one ;)
Hmm the in-process jigsaw after 30 mins....not bad...
The end product, finally........
Time taken to complete puzzle: 2 hours in one night!! Aiyyo...malu to the max seh...:P
So, this is a good remedy for ppl who have trouble sleeping at night..i highly recom
mend u ppl out there to try it out for yourself..it helps for me though..and because its so effective, Mr IM had bought me another jigsaw for me to try on; its a zodiac sign pic and guess how many pieces?? 1000 pieces, alammakk.....wonder how many months i will take to complete then....why dont u all try to guess how long I will take this time ;)
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